Monday of the Holy Week- When Dinner Matters

Today’s Gospel tells us that this beautiful and powerful dinner moment
took place six days before Passover, when Jesus visited Bethany. It was not just an ordinary visit. Only a short time before, Jesus had raised Lazarus from the dead. The people gathered at that dinner knew very well that they were sitting with someone who had conquered death.

The dinner appears to be at the home of Lazarus and his two sisters, Martha and Mary. Each one responds to Jesus in a different way, and from them we learn important lessons for our own faith.

Martha serves. She does not speak much in this passage; instead, she shows her love through action. She reminds us that serving the Lord and serving others is a true expression of faith. Many people in our parish live like Martha — quietly serving, helping, organizing, giving their time. This is love in action.

Mary, on the other hand, shows love in a very different way. She takes expensive perfume and anoints the feet of Jesus. It is an act of deep love, gratitude, and humility. She is not worried about what others will think. She only wants to show how much Jesus means to her. Mary teaches us that true love for Christ is never afraid to be generous. When we truly love Jesus, we do not give him what is left over; we give him our best.

Then we see Lazarus. He does not say anything in this Gospel either, but his very presence speaks loudly. He is living proof of what Jesus can do. Because of Lazarus, many people began to believe in Jesus. Sometimes we preach not by words but by the way we live. When people see hope in us, faith in us, peace in us, they begin to believe.

But sadly, the Gospel also tells us that the chief priests were planning to kill Lazarus. Why? Because his life was leading others to Jesus. This reminds us that faith is not always easy. When we follow Christ seriously, not everyone will understand us. Yet we must remain faithful.

So what do we learn from this dinner in Bethany?

We learn to serve like Martha.
We learn to love generously like Mary.
We learn to witness like Lazarus.

As we enter Holy Week, let us ask ourselves: how do I respond to Jesus? Do I serve him? Do I love him generously? Does my life lead others closer to him?

May this Holy Week be a time of deeper love, stronger faith, and renewed commitment to Christ.

Have a blessed and grace-filled Holy Week.

About the Author

My name is Fr. Peter Eke, a priest of the Diocese of Gaylord, Michigan. I was called to the Catholic priesthood in July 19th, 1997. I studied Canon Law at the Pontifical Lateran University, in Rome, Italy, with JCL Degree in 2001 and JCD (doctorate) Degree in 2003. Currently, I am the pastor of Our Lady of the Lake Parish in Prudenville, Saint James in Houghton Lake, and Saint Hubert in Higgins Lake. I am also a Judge at the Marriage Tribunal in my Diocese. In my free time, I love reading, listening to music, and taking a long walk. Since my ordination my inspiring message has been “with God the oil in the flask will not dry” (1Kings 17:14).

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7 Comments

  1. Thank you Father. This reflection sums up our faith. By living example we serve and witness. Peace with you this Holy Week and always.

  2. Father Peter, each week you help me see and understand the readings and gospel so much more clearly. I look forward to your Monday reflections! Serve, love, witness – actions I need to take this and other weeks.

  3. You are direct in encapsulating the essence of the Gospel message and communicating it succinctly for all to understand clearly and remember it.
    Thank you.

  4. Thank you Father,for these three important practices that will lead us closer to the Father.
    I am grateful for your weekly reflections that help keep me focused on the right path 🙏🏻

  5. Thank you for the reflection Father.
    “When we truly love Jesus, we do not give him what is left over; we give him our best.”
    That line stopped me in my tracks.
    Peace

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