Friday, November 18th, 30th Week in Ord. Time AND Dedication of the Basilicas of Sts. Peter and Paul

Love!

Is it Lawful to cure on the Sabath? In our Gospel today Jesus challenges us to love. The Pharisees who asked the question were trying to trick Jesus but Saint Luke (who should be the patron Saint of reporters) responds with Jesus’s reply which is a reality check on how all of us see the world.

Are we bound by rules or love?

Last weekend my wife, Anna, and I had super at one of a long-time parish member. We are part of a super club where twice a year we meet at people’s houses in the fall and the spring. They always meet at houses of different parish members. We usually meet on Saturday evening after Mass. Great way to meet and build community. We were blessed to have three of our parish priests join us. There was our Pastor, our retired Pastor and our Associate Pastor.

We had a great meal. Everyone contributed something and the conversation was wonderful. We can easily forget the humanity of our priests and clergy. We had desert and more conversation. Soon it was time to leave. Sunday liturgies needed fresh minds.

However, our retired pastor, Msgr. Dorney, had a stop on his way home. One of his old and longtime parishioner and friend was close to death. He was on his way to make a quick sick call on his friend.

Yes, Msgr. Dorney did it out of love. He could have left it to the “on call” priest or deacon. So true confession, I don’t always do things out of love. In the middle of the night my wife, Anna’s, blood sugar will drop. I don’t always get up to check on her. Sometimes, I find the next morning that I should have. We are all human and sometimes we fail in our love for others.

The important thing is that we get up the next day and try again. Jesus knew that the Pharisees were not perfect, but He was challenging them to look beyond rules and to love.

So how do I love like Jesus wants me to love?

“Who among you, if your son or ox falls into a cistern, would not immediately pull him out on the Sabbath day”. The same emotion goes for our neighbor of a perfect stranger who seeks help.

Our mandate from Jesus today is to love beyond rules and to love wherever we can.

God Love You Always

Bob Burford

PS: Please pray for peace in the Ukraine. Pray for Cancer victims and the caregivers. On a personal note, pray for the repose of the soul of Marge Burford, my brother, Dale’s, spouse of over 65 years who died suddenly on November 6th.

About the Author

My name is Bob Burford and am married to my lovely bride, Anna. I am a cradle Catholic and worship at Church of Saint Mary's in Tulsa, Oklahoma. I am active in the Knights of Columbus and praying where the Lord wants both of us to serve in our new faith home. College degrees in Economics and Accounting. My wife and I have eight grandchildren and five great grandchildren with a sixth to arrive this Fall. Love Pope Frances and proclaiming the Word of the Lord in my life! Please pray for all the Ukrainian people. Pray for their salvation and physical and emotional health.

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11 Comments

  1. Great insight one personally I can relate with. Thanks!
    May her soul and the souls of the faithful departed rest in peace. Amen.
    Eternal rest grant unto her o Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon her. Amen.

  2. Thank you Bob. Very sorry for your loss. May the Peace of Christ and the Love of God be with you and your family.

  3. Thanks for the reminder to love…………So sorry for the loss of Marge. Please extend my sympathies to Dale’s family. May she rest in peace.

  4. Rest in peace Marge, and may the perpetual light shine upon you.
    Thank you for your reflection Bob. Each day is indeed a new opportunity to love. Not always so easy.

  5. Condolences on the loss of Marge. May she be happy sharing in God’s presence in heaven. She and Dale had a long life together.

    Thanks to all who read A Catholic Moment each day and pray for those of us with cancer. Please continue your prayers for us and ask God to bless us and to enlighten scientists to discover a cure for cancer.

  6. Bob, my condolences to your brothers family. I just lost my sister November 7th – the first one of us 7 kids to pass.
    Eternal rest grant onto them O’ Lord may your perpetual Light shine upon them, may they rest in peace.

  7. Thank you for the reflections.
    Eternal rest grant to Merge oh Lord and let Perpetual Light shine upon her, may she rest in peace, Amen.

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