Thursday, 18 November 2021

For the days are coming upon you
when your enemies will raise a palisade against you;
they will encircle you and hem you in on all sides.
They will smash you to the ground and your children within you,
and they will not leave one stone upon another within you
because you did not recognize the time of your visitation
.

Of course, we do not recognize the time of visitation! We were so busy scrolling through our phones watching what someone posted on instagram or facebook (meta) or streaming netflix for the latest shows, we never had time to look up and notice the visitation!!!

We are so engrossed in our own lives and work that we have no time to stop and look at anyone around! I have been through this these few days, while my father was ill and I was shuffling through managing him and attending the two new jobs, I felt so overwhelmed , I did not take time to say a prayer or join in the family rosary! I did pray when I was alone in the silence watching my father in pain! Wondering why did I stop my prayer schedule!

As was decided by the Lord, my dad has been diagnosed with colon cancer at an early stage but nevertheless , came out as a jolt to my entire family near and extended. While every one known gave their opinion and free advice to my mother, I have browsed through all my contacts and found a dear friend and senior who could guide my dad and me through the appropriate treatment but in another state! So while you read this I will be waiting in line to show dad at the oncologist best at it.

Let us not ignore the presence of the Lord in our daily lives , that we need such a bold wake up call to remind us that we need to pay attention to Him being around us every day every moment! Let us keep ourselves in tune with His orders and hope for a life of fulfillment and grace!

P.S. Kindly keep my dad and our family in your prayers as we go through the process of this malignancy! we need the strenghth!

PRAYER!

Dearest Lord, I thank you for the lovely and healthy life we all have lived through, I ask you to help us accept your will and enable my papa and everyone who suffers from cancer of any stage and organ to submit their health and will into your hands and pray for the best outcome! Bless all the doctors, nurses, paramedical staff who deal with such patients with immense empathy and patience and proceed in faith with you!

AMEN.

About the Author

Hello! I’m Dr Analise Maria D’ Mello, (MBBS, MS obgyn, DNB) from the beautiful state of Goa in India. I was born and raised in a Roman Catholic family, learning my prayers, catechism and Catholic values from my parents and grandmothers. I am currently practicing as an obstetrician and gynecologist for 3 years since my residency. I often speak on anti-abortion to college students and married couples, and counsel distressed pregnant women with appropriate medical advice. I am part of the St Luke's Medical Guild of Catholic Doctors in my state providing services in prisons, and Lenten and advent retreats for medical professionals and their families.

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26 Comments

  1. May God’s healing hand be upon your dad Dr A. May your father be a point of contact to all the sick and may God grant you all strength at this period. Remain blessed🙏

  2. Thanks Dr Analise for your reflection and the reminder to be aware of the presence of our Lord in the busy-ness of our lives. Keeping your dad and your family in my prayers. We ask for the intercession of Mother Mary and St Peregrine. God bless x

  3. Dear Analise, I’m praying for peace and strength for your family. My mom was diagnosed with Stage 3 colon cancer 9 years and it was a terrifying time for our family. It ultimately brought us closer to each other and to God, and I’m grateful to him for holding us up during that time. I wish the same for you.

  4. Thank you Dr. for this wake-up call reflection. May God ‘s favour dwell with your family at a time like this. It will end in praise.

  5. My sincere prayers and thoughts with your Dad and family, 🙏✝️ may the lord’s mercy and healing hands be upon all of us🙏

  6. Thank you for sharing this reflection.

    Praying for your father, your family, and all who are suffering from ill health.

  7. Praying for healing for your dad and for strength for you and your family as you walk this road with your dad.

  8. Thank you Analise. May your faith give you strength and hope through the time ahead to comfort and heal your Father. He is blessed to have a special daughter by his side during such an illness. Peace with you and your family.

  9. Praying for your dad, Yun and your family as Yun go through this trying times. Praying that the Lord strengthens your faith, sanctify you with the holy sprit and lift all your worries and anxieties to Him!
    Jesus, I trust in you
    Jesus, I trust in you
    Jesus, I trust in you!
    God Bless!

  10. Annalise, of course we will pray for your dad and your whole family. May God bless you and give you strength. May his love and healing hands envelope you in his mercy. One of my dear friends mother also just got diagnosed with cancer. I pray for all, including Anna, Paul, and Bill.

  11. I pray for healing for your Dad. My you feel the comforting presence of our Lord and Mary and Joseph at your side. Amen.

  12. Thank you Dr. Analise for your selflessness. In spite of your family challenges you still made time for such an inspiring reflection. May God bless you and your family abundantly with all the graces you need at this time. I pray Gods healing hand upon your dad and give thanks for a victorious outcome.Lord grant him your peace and strength in Jesus name, AMEN!!

  13. Thank you doctor for your reflection. I ask all who read A Catholic Moment to pray for your father and also for all of those of us who have cancer. Thanks to all of you who pray for us with cancer.

  14. Thank you Dr. For reminding us to listen, and let God guide us everyday. That everything we say and do is in worship of the Lord.
    Many prayers for you and your family and the doctors. Blessings and thanks for a wonderful reflection .

  15. May The Blessed Holy Trinity continue to bless you and your family with faith, strength and determination during difficult time with your father’s health. We all have our crosses to bear. May all of you embrace them with determination, thanks and praise.
    Remember, YOU ARE NEVER ALONE…🙏🏻❤️

  16. When I read your reflections I always feel as if I am hearing from a dear friend. You apply the readings to your life which gives them meaning in mine.

    Thank you for sharing about your father’s cancer. Another step in the journey of life that many have traveled. Prayers for all as you navigate these steps!!!

    Sincerest thanks for such personal sharing!

  17. Thank you for this reflection… The Lord’s Presence is in our daily lives at every moment and our concerns are redeemed by His Promise that He will never leave us nor forsake us, as we wait in great patience in tune with His graces. My prayers for you and family I offer.

  18. Prayers for you, your father, and all the medical folks you will encounter. These times can be precious, as well as stressful.

    Mary Ortwein

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