Saturday July 4th, 2020 The Bridegroom is with them

Last year our dishwasher broke. My wife, Anna, called the repair company that we have a repair contract. The repairman came on time and studied the situation and worked on the machine for about a half hour. He did several things and basically gave my wife instructions to wash the dishes before we put them into the dishwasher. This did not go over too good with my bride. Eventually we were satisfied with another tip from another repairman and the dishwasher seems to be running okay at present. Not the best but good enough. It gets the job done.

A repair means restoration as the prophet Amos was speaking in our first reading today. Amos 9:14 “I will restore my people Israel, they shall rebuild and inhabit their ruined cities, Plant vineyards and drink the wine, set out gardens and eat the fruits”.

My buddy Skip has an old saying when someone asks him for advice. “When you find yourself in a hole … stop digging.”  Jesus is giving similar advice today. He is talking about repairs for our souls and the steps we as a people need to take to achieve that end.  When I was a boy, one of my favorite memories were my old white t-shirts that I would wear in the long hot Florida summers. It was perfect light cotton used for working for my Dad or play. After a long series of wear a hole would eventually develop, but it would be small at first. That was the point when the t-shirt would become the most comfortable and so… so soft. It was also at this point when my mother would convert them to a rag for cleaning windows or dusting. My sister would take extreme delight upon finding a hole and trying to make it bigger to speed up the process.  It was a game between us and we laugh about it today. No repair here but a conversion.

Whenever we receive the Holy Eucharist, we are repairing our souls by fasting and cleaning our bodies for the celebration of the feast of the Body and Blood of Christ. In the early 1950’s the laws of the Church on fasting said that we could not even have water before we receive Holy Communion. Christ in today’s reading was predicting the fasting we would do but not only just with the absence of food or drink but with good works and alms giving every day of our lives. It is holding the door for someone  or helping someone at work with a problem that you had solved.

In our gospel for today Christ was defending why his apostles were not fasting and the reason was they had no need of repair. They were with the bridegroom and the celebration was in process.

In Matthew 9 : 15 ” Jesus answered them, “Can the wedding guests mourn as long as the bridegroom is with them? The days will come when the bridegroom is taken away from them, and then they will fast.”

Today prayer, fasting, alms giving and good works are the repair process that we need to repair our souls for both the celebration of Mass and receiving the Bridegroom in the form of Holy  Eucharist and also preparation for our union with Him in our eternal home, heaven. We here on earth today are preparing for the Bridegroom. When we are with the Bridegroom, no repair is needed and as Jesus ended our gospel today “both are preserved.”

God Bless

Bob Burford

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My name is Bob Burford and am married to my lovely bride, Anna. I am a cradle Catholic and worship at Church of Saint Mary's in Tulsa, Oklahoma. I am active in the Knights of Columbus and praying where the Lord wants both of us to serve in our new faith home. College degrees in Economics and Accounting. My wife and I have eight grandchildren and five great grandchildren with a sixth to arrive this Fall. Love Pope Frances and proclaiming the Word of the Lord in my life! Please pray for all the Ukrainian people. Pray for their salvation and physical and emotional health.

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6 Comments

  1. Thank you Bob. We appreciate your reflections and good thoughts of Catholic principal. Happy 4th!

  2. . . . Yes, happy 4th of July, but let’s pray that ALL Americans, “We here on earth today are preparing for the Bridegroom.” Oh, God, how we need you today to repair the unhealthy behaviors that are taken place in the world and in our blessed country. We know them, so let’s pray that, “When we are with the Bridegroom, no repair is needed and as Jesus ended our gospel today “both are preserved.” Amen

  3. Today’s readings offer peace and hope. It is amazing that Amos’ prophesy around 787 BC and John’s Gospel reading are still so relevant today. In the first reading, Amos offers hope for Israel. All of the devastation and destruction caused by Israel’s sin and God’s judgment will be reversed. He will rebuild and restore peace to Israel.

    Jesus assured the Apostles of his peace in John 14:27, “Peace I leave with you, My peace I give to you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled, neither let it be afraid.” There are many instances of fasting in the Old Testament and Jesus fasted for 40 days before His public ministry began. But with his Apostles Jesus did not insist, knowing that His time with them would be short and there was so much of teaching to do. But when fasting, Jesus had one advice – be joyous and do not look dismal, so that only God sees your fast and will reward you.

  4. God bless us all over America on this great day! Thank you too Bob for sharing that wisdom with us.

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