Saturday February 26, 2022: It takes a village…and a Church

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Cursillo had a very large impact on my faith life in particular and my life in general. It made me stop and think about my relationship with God over the course of a long weekend. And to hear others witness as to how life with and without God affected them. For those of you who are not familiar with Cursillo, the concept began in Spain in 1944. The goal was to prepare Christian leaders to guide those intending to walk the Camino de Santiago or Way of St. James. Cursillo stands for “Short Course” in Christianity. The weekend compresses lessons into 4 days, Thursday through Sunday, with a group of men or women who are also seeking to grow closer to the Lord. I highly recommend taking the time to attend a Cursillo weekend.

I attended Cursillo in 2014. A concept of the movement is what is called the “Fourth Day Community”. You are encouraged to carry the weekend forward by grouping weekly with others (Cursilistas) who have also gone through Cursillo. During this time you review your week and encourage one another in the areas of Piety, Study and Action. Our group has been meeting since we attended our weekend 8 years ago.

One member of our group is named Bob. He is, by the way, one of my biggest encouragers in my writing here at ACM. He will recognize himself and his story in this reflection. On our weekend, Bob and I were in the same small group. At one point he mentioned to the group that he did not understand why we had to go to church. Why couldn’t we just stay at home and pray to God as an individual person. Isn’t our connection with God most important, after all?

Bob wound up going to Cursillo because a neighbor of his, Jim, had gone door to door in the neighborhood inviting people to do a Cursillo weekend. Jim, who is a member of my parish, is also the person who had kept after me for 3 years to get me to go. The Holy Spirit must have been in Bob that day because he said yes to Jim without much hesitation.

So, when Bob made the comment about not having to go to church it kind of hit a nerve with me. Why can’t you just pray at home to God? Well, besides the likelihood that you won’t pray on your own, I reasoned with Bob that if Jim had made that same decision…to just stay home and pray…Bob would not be at the Cursillo weekend. Jim would not have reached out and extended community to Bob. And that is what Church (capital intended) is. Community. And James says so today in the first reading.

James tells us, if someone is suffering, pray for them. If they are in good spirits, praise God in song. If you are ill, ask the presbyters to pray over you. He also commands us to confess our sins to each other. Prayers of the righteous are powerful.

Yes, I know there is the scripture reading that says that when you pray to go to your room and lock the door. But Jesus was telling us to not make a spectacle and call attention to yourself when praying to impress others. There were of course times when he went off to be by himself to pray. As we do at times such as during adoration. But Jesus’ ministry was obviously a communal one. He chose 12 apostles. He sent out 72 disciples in groups of TWO. He preached in synagogues. It was a sermon on the MOUNT not a sermon in solitary confinement.

We are social beings. We are asked to support one another. To comfort and reach out to others when in trouble and to rejoice with each other during good times. Catholic Charities supports the homeless, provides health care, provides services during disasters, aids women in crisis pregnancies and helps to place children in adoptive families. These are a few of the many services they provide. Knights of Columbus reaches out to the needs of the parish and to the wider community. Raising funds in the parish for programs within the parish, organizing blood drives, cleaning up the roads in town, helping to run Special Olympic programs, and aiding veterans. These two groups could not accomplish a fraction of this if we were not community. Either by directly participating in their ministries or supporting them financially through the appeals of our diocese and parish.

Are churches perfect? Heck no. There is gossiping, there is hypocrisy, sinful priests, there are weak homilies and music at times. But there is ALWAYS community. Whether we just attend mass to worship or are inspired to get involved in a ministry. In all these ways we CONNECT with one another. And when we connect, we invite the Holy Spirit in. And where the Spirit is, that is where Jesus resides. It is also so neatly summarized in the Cursillo slogan: “Make a Friend, Be a Friend, Bring a Friend to Christ”

For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them.” (Matthew 18:20)

About the Author

Hello! My name is John Ciribassi. I live in Carol Stream, IL in the USA. My wife Elise and I are parishioners at Corpus Christi Catholic Church. We have two adult daughters. One lives in Senegal, West Africa with her husband and her 3 sons. The other teaches Anthropology at the University of Oslo, Norway. We also have a home in Mainesburg, Pa in the North Central part of Pennsylvania. My wife and I are both retired veterinarians, and my specialty is in animal behavior. I attended college and veterinary school in Illinois, where I met my wife who is from the Chicago area, and the rest is history! My hobbies include Racquetball, Pickleball, Off Road Motorcycle Riding, Hiking and Camping. I continue to enjoy the opportunity to offer what little insight I have on the scriptures. But I have always felt that the scriptures can speak for themselves. My job is just to shine a little light on them for people who maybe don't have the time to look into the readings deeply. I hope you enjoy and find value in my writings. I continue to be grateful for this opportunity.

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17 Comments

  1. I always like the background story to your Saturday’s reflection. Keep it up. Next year,I will attend a Cursillo,God willing.
    Thank you Dr. John.

  2. I am writing this from Poland, close to the border with Ukraine. I am Polish, my husband is Ukrainian and all his family live there. Please pray for Ukraine. Please pray for peace. God bless you all🙏🙏🙏

  3. Dorota, you & your family & the people of Ukraine are in my prayers. Stay safe and may God protect you. Psalm 91

  4. In constant prayer for peace in Ukraine. Let the Holy Spirit invade the hearts of those struggling with the evil desires that lead to war and destruction. Dear God, help and protect your children who are caught in the middle of this conflict. May hearts be changed and peace and freedom prevail.

  5. In constant prayer for peace in Ukraine. Let the Holy Spirit invade the hearts of those struggling with the evil desires that lead to war and destruction. Dear God, help and protect your children who are caught in the middle of this conflict. May hearts be changed and peace and freedom prevail.

  6. Thank you John! I love your sharings and often sense of humor🙂 community is important.
    I want to share a song I discovered on U tube to chase out the enemy from serious situations such as the invasion on Ukraine, health conditions etc.
    Its Raise an Hallelujah by the Bethel Group. If anyone feels compelled it can be a powerful prayer song.
    God bless you all.

  7. Thank you John for another wonderful reflection. Praying for the Ukrainian people. May God give them strength.

  8. Thank you John. Love the spirit of and the Spirit in your reflections! Dorota, the situation in Ukraine is horrible! There are many of us praying for the people there. I will also add in prayers for your husband family, Poland and all who are or will be affected by this war.

  9. Wonderful reflection! Always enjoy your writings. May God bless you abundantly for sharing your gift. Pray brothers and sisters for all those in the Ukraine that peace will come swiftly.

  10. Why do we go to church to pray? I was taught, each of us is a glowing ember, burning for the love of God. As a group we burn hotter and start a fire…alone we slowly grow colder and eventually our fire goes out. That, is why we need the church and each other. Stay close brothers and sisters, burn hot for the Lord.

  11. Great reflection. I would also like to add to the ‘why go to church’ conversation that during COVID restrictions when we could not attend Mass in person, I was never more fully aware of how much I NEED the Eucharist – the body, blood, soul and divinity of Christ is what fortifies me. Otherwise, I have not hope of hearing God through my prayer and responding appropriately to his will. Thanks for your words John. All of my prayers are directed to the people of Ukraine and all others impacted by this maddening situation. May God save their souls.

  12. We are praying for the innocent people suffering in Ukraine. It is a terrible sadness and our heartfelt prayers go out to them.

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