Saturday 6/1/19 We ain’t never had a friend like Him

Aladdin and the Genie from Flickr

Most of us are familiar with the story of Aladdin – if not the original Mideast folktale, then certainly the Disney variation that has been recently made into a live-action feature film. It is the story of a young ne’er do well who becomes the unwitting recipient of a magic lamp that contains an all-powerful genie capable of making the boy’s wildest dreams come true.

            In order to compel the enchanted creature to grant one of his desires, Aladdin is told to rub the lamp, invoke the Genie’s name and make a wish. Unlike the legend of the leprechauns who tend to trick their abductors in order to escape servitude, a genie is a captive slave who is subjected to the whims of the one who is in possession of the lamp. If you ask, then you will receive. Your wish is his command. 

            The first time I heard the message in today’s gospel, I assumed Jesus was offering up a similar deal. Because he must return to the father and will no longer be around to work miracles in real time, he assures his disciples that as long as they drop his name in their prayers, God will take care of them. I willingly admit that I was all of eight-years-old when I first contemplated this, but it sounded like a pretty sweet set up to me! Forget birthday candles, chasing rainbows or casting a penny down a wishing well. As long as I loved Jesus, I could count on Him to put in a good word for me. Talk about having friends in high places! 

            Yeah…it didn’t quite work out the way I thought it would. Despite my fervent prayers to let me get an A on a test I didn’t study for, make my crush like me back or for my parents to win the Publisher’s Clearinghouse Sweepstakes, God was not inclined to fulfill my request. Now I don’t want to suggest that Jesus failed to make good on His campaign promises, but I held up my end of the bargain and he didn’t come through. So what went wrong? 

            Well for starters, Jesus isn’t a genie, leprechaun or magical wizard whose sole purpose is to give me whatever I think I want at the time. By getting Him involved in my prayers, I am more or less asking Him to co-sign on my concern and hand it over to God so that He can do what is best according to his will. Let’s face it; Thy will be done is the only prayer that works 100% of the time! Jesus knew that when He used it!  Perhaps I didn’t understand this when I was little, but it’s the kind of thing that gives me pause now. These days, I don’t bother God with the inconsequential things that matter little in the long run and I don’t blame Him if they don’t turn out the way I want them to. When I need Jesus to sign off on my need, I try to make sure it is something important and then I trust God to do what’s right. After all, asking isn’t getting. 

            Ali Baba may have had those 40 thieves and Scheherazade had her thousand tales. But we’re in luck because Jesus gave us the one prayer that never fails. 

            We’ve never had a friend like Him. 

Today’s readings for Mass: ACTS 18: 23-28; PS 47: 2-3, 8-9, 10; JN 16: 23B-2B 

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Julie Young is an award-winning writer and author from Indianapolis, Indiana in the USA, whose work has been seen in Today’s Catholic Teacher, The Catholic Moment, and National Catholic Reporter. She is the author of nine books including: A Belief in Providence: A Life of Saint Theodora Guerin, The CYO in Indianapolis and Central Indiana and The Complete Idiot's Guide to Catholicism. She is a graduate of Scecina Memorial High School in Indianapolis and holds degrees in writing and education from Saint Mary-of-the-Woods College. She can be found online at www.julieyoungfreelance.com

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4 Comments

  1. A best friend with the best prayer…JC has all we need. He and his Dad have us covered. Awesome stuff Julie

  2. Julie, like many people, I too wish Jesus would answer all my prayers and petitions, especially, to win a million dollars ??$ – just kidding!

    Seriously, tho’ I have had one prayer I’ve been praying for years, asking Jesus and Our Lady and certain saints to intercede on my behalf. I remember in one of my prayers to Jesus, I said, if you won’t answer me, I’m going to have a chat with your Mother! Mother Mary had, in the past, always answered my prayers for employment (I have a special pray in Mary’s prayer book -that belonged to my mother- for employment). However, even Mother Mary and the saints have not answered my recent prayers! However, I kept praying, petitioning for the same thing. It occurred to me a while back, that my prayers have been answered, but not in the way I would have liked. Instead of ‘fixing’ my problem, I have been given the gift of perseverance. I keep praying for those who have hurt me. In fact, I have joined two Novena groups, one to The Holy Spirit (Pentecost – June 9) and for St. Anthony’s feast day (June 13). Guess what my petition is! Jesus must think I’m a broken record! However, I also believe in praying for others. The ones most important to me right now are my great nephew and niece, my sister and her husband and their youngest daughter. They are grieving terribly the loss of their Mother, daughter, sister. My niece, oldest daughter (56) of my sister passed away from a massive heart attack March 31. Please keep them in your prayers too.

    I got side tracked a bit there for a moment ?. I wanted to mention, that in the Gospels, Jesus answered a lot of prayers for healing. Two of my favourite stories are the woman who touched Jesus’ hem and was healed, and the man who said to Jesus, “if you choose, you can heal me ?”. That one always makes me smile. I’ve tried to use those words too! But in the end, I usually say “Your Will Be Done”.

    Thank you for the visual image! It made me smile and lifted my pain, even for a brief moment.

    Have a sunny, warm weekend everyone.
    God bless
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    “Not without design, does God write the music of our lives”
    – John Ruskin
    “Thou hast given me so much. Give me one more thing – A Grateful Heart.”
    – George Herbert

  3. Cue “Spirit in the Sky”! Has been running through my head since reading the title of your reflection, Julie, and it’s still going. I like that song, so happy to have it stuck in my head.

    Your best reflection to date. Usually, I prefer the more serious reflections on this site, but yours was spot-on today! Kudos!

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