Monday, September 30, 2019 – Let Us Unite!

As a child I often asked my mother, “Who do you love more, my brother or me?” My very wise mother always answered me with a question: “Which eye would you love more … the right or left? No parent can chose a favorite. Every child is unique and loved equally.”

In today’s Gospel, the disciples acted childishly, competing for attention. They even resorted to complaints about another person that was not among them, acting under Jesus’ name. While Jesus loves every one of us, we often compete with each other for reasons that are not in alignment with His word.

In the state where I live in India, the Catholic community venerates the Blessed Virgin Mary. A common feature of every parish is to send a blessed statue of the blessed Virgin Mary from house to house throughout the community. The statue is accompanied from one house to the next every evening in a candle lit procession, while singing hymns and with prayers by the entire community.

The statue stays overnight at every house, whose members pray – and then bid her farewell the following evening to the next welcoming neighbor. This seemingly beautiful event has been reduced to a competition among neighbors, in terms of the decor and the food served to community after their prayers. It defeats the very purpose of the idea of building a faithful community of Catholics and increased devotion to the blessed mother.

Often as Catholics we lose sight of our goal, to do the will of God and spread it through our words, thoughts and deeds. We tend to get affected by worldly ideas and attachments – causing a lot of animosity, anxiety and resultant lack of faith.

Jesus said in today’s gospel that, “ Anyone who is not against you is for you.”

Let us unite all those who have faith in Christ, and form a church of loving, evangelizing and faithful Catholics!

Let us spread the word of God, by not just being Sunday Catholics – but by forgiving that annoying colleague at work, talking to that nosy neighbor, meeting the friend who never bothers to return your calls, or the relative we avoid for various reasons.

PRAYER:

Help us Oh Lord, to be instruments of Your faith and love. Help us spread your word through our thoughts, words, and deeds, and unite us as a community of faithful Catholics for a better world. Amen.

About the Author

Hello! I’m Dr Analise Maria D’ Mello, (MBBS, MS obgyn, DNB) from the beautiful state of Goa in India. I was born and raised in a Roman Catholic family, learning my prayers, catechism and Catholic values from my parents and grandmothers. I am currently practicing as an obstetrician and gynecologist for 3 years since my residency. I often speak on anti-abortion to college students and married couples, and counsel distressed pregnant women with appropriate medical advice. I am part of the St Luke's Medical Guild of Catholic Doctors in my state providing services in prisons, and Lenten and advent retreats for medical professionals and their families.

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16 Comments

  1. So very nice to read your words of encouragement. I look forward to hearing more about your life in India and some of your Catholic customs.
    Janet

  2. Thanks doctor.very true many a times we Catholics and Christian’s lose focus and compete.I recently heard a priest discouraged Christian’s against leaving their Rosaries on statues of The Blessed Virgin at a shrine in my area.He argued that a Rosary is a prayer Item.when you leave it hanged around any part of The Blessed Virgin Mary then we miss the purpose for why we bought it or got it for that matter .so trully let’s remain focused on alligning our thoughts with the teachings of our Lord Jesus

  3. A wonderful reminder to be a Catholic every day of the week, especially through our interactions with others. Thank you, Analise.

  4. Welcome Dr. D’Mello. I am looking forward to reading your inspired reflections. God bless you in your work.

  5. So nice of you to post this!!! Thanks for all you do for the Church and your work for women and babies in utero!!?

  6. Thank you for your beautiful work. Saving unborn babies is something that all Catholics must pray and work toward. You are giving so many of the gifts God blessed you with.

  7. Wonderful reflection and loved the prayer you chose at closing. Looking forward to more of your thoughts, especially since your reflections may include insight from your practice of OBGYN and your life in India. Thank you.

  8. I disagree about talking to relatives whom you avoid for various reasons. If those reasons are die to the toxic environment that these relatives cause, then keep avoiding them. And nosy neighbours… you know who you are: mind your own business.

  9. That was simply beautiful. Thank you. Meeting the friend who never bothers to return your calls, that’s some unconditional love right there. Thank you for the encouragement.

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