Friday, May 27th, Sixth Week of Easter

Words sometimes get us into trouble. I am speaking for myself of course. I sometimes don’t say enough. My wife, Anna, will say something and expect a comment and I have either nothing to say or am thinking about what she said……. I am in trouble.

Yesterday was Ascension Thursday. The “Great Commission” Matthew 28:17-20 says at the end I will be with you always even to the end of the age. So we are here today in the great story of the formation of the Church. The Apostles are alone. They are waiting on the Holy Spirit and are lost sheep. The apostles were speechless and afraid.

What will happen next?

There were times in my life that I was speechless and afraid. What do you say to a parent that has lost a child or a spouse? Will I say the wrong thing? At some point what we say to someone we are trying to comfort is not as important as the fact we are there. The things we say to someone whose soul we are trying to lead to Christ is not as important as what we do.

There is a very good reason for us to be confident when we speak to the world around us of our faith. One of my supervisors recently asked me why I even bothered to go to Church. My answer was that I wanted to go to Church and that I have been doing it all my life and didn’t want to stop now. In our Gospel today Jesus says Amen, Amen twice. That is usually a time when we should sit up and take notice.

Jesus says first, I say to you , you will weep and mourn, while the world rejoices; you will grieve, but your grief will become joy. Now I would not say this to someone who is going through this but there is hope in Jesus’ words that joy will result in the end. All we can do is show someone who is grieving the joy in our hearts.

Jesus reminds us of that joy when He says, But I will see you again, and your hearts will rejoice, and no one will take your joy away from you. On that day you will not question me about anything. Amen, Amen, I say to you, whatever you ask the Father in my name he will give you.

Now in my private prayers, I try not to ask Jesus for things for me. I try to give praise to God and petition for others. Yes, I want things and have needs but I have joy. That is the amen, amen moment for me. Other people have needs and their need for joy is the most important thing for my prayers.

Why?

Because the joy I have received from hard times carries me over. Looking back at my life, I have had worldly successes and failures. In the end I have joy, because I know that Jesus promised that no one would take away that joy. My confidence comes from that amen, amen.

If we accept the fact that joy is a promise of Jesus, then everything is joy. When we speak as Saint Paul, let us do it with joy. When we have hardships, let us do it with joy. When we have successes, let us do it with joy.

I am not sure where I heard this but Christians have a joy about them. They have peace in any storm or hardship, because they have joy. Smile ! Too many Christians I know only focus on the sorrow. Real Christians focus on joy.

Please smile today and focus on the joy that Jesus promised us.

God Love You Always

Bob Burford

PS: Please pray for peace in Ukraine. Pray for cancer victims and their caregivers. Pray that you receive joy today.

About the Author

My name is Bob Burford and am married to my lovely bride, Anna. I am a cradle Catholic and worship at Church of Saint Mary's in Tulsa, Oklahoma. I am active in the Knights of Columbus and praying where the Lord wants both of us to serve in our new faith home. College degrees in Economics and Accounting. My wife and I have eight grandchildren and five great grandchildren with a sixth to arrive this Fall. Love Pope Frances and proclaiming the Word of the Lord in my life! Please pray for all the Ukrainian people. Pray for their salvation and physical and emotional health.

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14 Comments

  1. Thank you Bob, great message about finding joy in both our hardships and successes.

  2. An absolutely beautiful joyful message! Thank you Bob. Amy updates you want to share re: Anna?

  3. Thanks Bob for your encouraging reflection. Let’s be joyful and show it with smiles. As the popular song says, “Put on a happy face.”
    Thanks as always to the readers who pray for those with cancer and please continue your prayers.
    Have a joyful weekend.

  4. Thank you Bob. I am praying for Anna and all with cancer. Praying for you too. Your reflections always bring joy into my heart.

  5. Thanks Bob! You with the Holy Spirit put a confirmation on Joy. My Mother (moved to Heaven at age 96) raised 12 children. During an interview she was asked…how did you do it without going crazy, always staying upbeat and positive?
    Her answer was always keep your Joy..it keeps you from getting depressed or down in the dumps. Myself if I feel sad, I smile and the Joy finds it’s way to my heart❤

    God bless us all and the USA.
    Heal Uvlade Texas, Ukrain and Russia, Cancer Victims and Caregivers, those who have lost their Joy.

  6. Bob, thanks for your reflection today, I needed to hear that.
    “Too many Christians I know only focus on the sorrow.”
    That has been me – as of late.
    I hate it, I really do! I need to break out of this funk for my own sake and the sake of others of coarse.

  7. Thank you for this reflection. It speaks to my life about finding joy in hardship. Being joyful has created a special kind of calmness in me.

  8. Bob I am always uplifted by your reflections but this one has especially moved me. It s so hard in this violent world to find Joy with all the horrors that seem a daily occurrence around the entire world recently in Texas in USA and in Ukraine in Europe. But you have reminded us that our inner Christian Joy can sustain us despite all the misery everywhere we look. Thank you for taking the time to write these reflections. God Bless you!

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