Friday July 9th, 14th Week in Ordinary Time

Mourning doves on balcony
Behold, I am sending you like sheep among wolves; so be shrewd and serpents and simple as doves

Do you ever get angry? Do you do some really stupid things?

Yes, I am guilty of both. I sometimes get angry at the people, I love. I get angry about politics. I sometimes do things that I shouldn’t. The point is that as adults, we have opportunities for repentance and asking for forgiveness. We hopefully learn from our mistakes.

My friend, Skip, always quotes this old saying, “If you find yourself in a hole, stop digging.” As a retired police officer, he saw people making the same mistakes and expecting different results.

Joseph was a victim. He was abused, but he did not let that stop him from listening to the Holy Spirit. By all rights he should have been very angry at his brothers.

In Genisis 46:29 Joseph prepared his chariot and went up to meet his father Israel in Goshen. As soon as, Israel made his appearance, Joseph threw his arms around him and wept a long time on his shoulder.

Picture in your mind today that hug. I feel the warmth and ,honestly, don’t want to leave that hug.

Joseph must have been very shrewd. He would never have risen from a slave to highest level of authority in another country without some skills. He also checked his anger or righteous indignation. He could have very easily killed or tortured the brothers that had tried to kill him, but he would never have experienced that hug from his father if he had gone the route of anger.

What would have happened had Joseph not chosen to be more dove like?

He would have missed out on so much.

We could be missing out on so much.

When they hand you over, do not worry about how you are to speak or what you are to say. You will be given at that moment what you are to say.
For it will no be you who speak but the Spirit of your Father speaking through you.

Jesus does not paint a picture of peace and tranquility but of hardship and pain. The path that Jesus is suggesting is not easy. It wasn’t easy for Joseph but it was rewarding.

Joseph’s story could be entirely different had Joseph not chosen the other path. It wasn’t the easiest path but the most fruitful.

Wise as serpents…peaceful as doves…letting the Holy Spirit lead.

God Bless You Always

Bob Burford

Picture Credit: “Mourning doves on balcony” by Knoten2010 is marked with CC PDM 1.0

About the Author

My name is Bob Burford and am married to my lovely bride, Anna. I am a cradle Catholic and worship at Church of Saint Mary's in Tulsa, Oklahoma. I am active in the Knights of Columbus and praying where the Lord wants both of us to serve in our new faith home. College degrees in Economics and Accounting. My wife and I have eight grandchildren and five great grandchildren with a sixth to arrive this Fall. Love Pope Frances and proclaiming the Word of the Lord in my life! Please pray for all the Ukrainian people. Pray for their salvation and physical and emotional health.

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10 Comments

  1. Excellent reflection and advice today Bob. No more digging…just more forgiving. Peace with you Mr Bob.

  2. Thank you. So true, we miss out on so much when we choose not to follow God’s plan. Thank you Bob. How is Anna and how are the rest of your friends doing?

  3. Thank you Bob. It really is that simple, but it takes us giving to God our stuff daily. I’m so grateful for God’s patience.

  4. Than you Bob, just touching on this subject the other day with my grandson, can’t wait to read this to him. Like the saying of “when digging yourself in a hole, stop digging. Thank you wonderful thoughts.

  5. Thank You Bob for this reflection. I find I have a low tolerance for people who don’t have common sense. Will remember to stop digging!

  6. Excellent reflection Bob. Love the saying ‘wise as serpents…peaceful as doves…let the Holy Spirit lead.’ I need to stop digging and let the Holy Spirit lead me. Great advice. Thank you and God bless.

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