Friday, February 16th after Ash Wednesday

Years ago, when I was working full time, my family would go to dinner. It was my job to pay the bill, because I was financially in a better possession to pay the bill. I loved doing it because God has been generous to me, and it seems only natural to pass it along to those I love.

Lent is a time to break yokes and also a time to journey with others in our family to eat and help them break the jokes that they carry. The thing that strikes me more is the idea of breaking a yoke. Sin is a yoke but also is mental illness, physical illness and countless medical issues we encounter in life. Lent is a journey and the whole purpose is to bring us closer to God.

Like anything we need to start off small. Myself and on occasion, I sometimes use the Lord’s name in vain. I am quick to lose my temper with my spouse. I am clueless at times to the feelings of others. I try not to be, but I am sometimes judgmental of others.

It is okay to judge me now. Like all of us, I am a sinner and a work-in-progress Child of God. To take this journey we need to start out small. As we overcome the small yokes, we discover other things that prevent us from our goal which is to do better as a Child of God.

One of my relatives who is an ex-wife. She was married for 17 years to her abusive ex-husband for the sake of her children. Today she is bitter and resentful and still afraid of him. This was clearly a non-sacramental marriage.

God does not approve of an abusive relationship. This is not God’s will and anyone who says that it is a liar. My point is that this period of hurt, and abuse is in the past.

It does not define her life.

This Lent and today is a time to free yourself of the past. God has already gotten you through it. You are much better than that. The past is a hard yoke to break but the here and now of our lives is full of hope and freedom from the hurt and pain of the past.

Yes, this Lent is a time to celebrate with the fish fry at Church today. It is also time to break the yoke of small things and then as we succeed with those small things the big things are possible. It is time to go beyond our fears. It a time to clean house rid ourselves of the yokes small or big that hold us back.

God Love You Always

Bob Burford

PS: Please Pray for Cancer victims and their caregivers. Pray for the conversion of Russia and the salvation of the Ukrainian and Russian people and their soldiers. Pray for the Holy Land. Pray for peace!

About the Author

My name is Bob Burford and am married to my lovely bride, Anna. I am a cradle Catholic and worship at Church of Saint Mary's in Tulsa, Oklahoma. I am active in the Knights of Columbus and praying where the Lord wants both of us to serve in our new faith home. College degrees in Economics and Accounting. My wife and I have eight grandchildren and five great grandchildren with a sixth to arrive this Fall. Love Pope Frances and proclaiming the Word of the Lord in my life! Please pray for all the Ukrainian people. Pray for their salvation and physical and emotional health.

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6 Comments

  1. Thank you Bob. Love the encouragement to move on and put things in the past. We can only Improve our relationship with God if we look forward. Peace with you my brother.

  2. So true Bob, yet so hard. The memories of the past rear up in my mind. It is not a good way to live the last quarter of my life. I just found this quote and read it daily. “DON’T WAIT for things to get better life will always be complicated. Learn to be happy right now, otherwise you’ll run out of time.”

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