Thursday, 20th November 2025

“If this day you only knew what makes for peace—
But now it is hidden from your eyes.

Every day from when I wake up till I crash in bed, I am always in a constant rush—I don’t know if it’s my anxiety or just my profession drilled into me! I am in a tearing hurry to complete my set at the gym and rush to work to secure the parking and the same position in the library I occupy… I even make a to-do schedule to ensure I don’t skip small stuff. Even writing this reflection was in my to-do list right after a hot shower and dinner!

And if even one event moves out of schedule, it makes me uncomfortable, anxious, and above all, very disappointed with myself for not keeping up with my plans!! But then sometimes, I’m behind a patient wading through the hospital corridors while I have to slow my pace down as I can’t pass by them for the crowded hallways—it makes me think, why am I in such a hurry? What is my purpose? Is it the extra 2 minutes I will gain? What will I do with it? Scroll or schedule in another task so I won’t waste time! Why am I always in a hurry… is it because I cannot see the big picture, or am I falling prey to the hustle culture?

Our end goal is the same—leave this world and move on! So why am I constantly stressed or guilty if I take a relaxing break? Why do I need to constantly prove to myself I’m good enough? In my Father’s eyes, I am made in His likeness and image and yes, I do need to shed some weight to ensure His image doesn’t pick some disease …

But like Jesus tells His disciples — we are just unaware of what actually brings us peace! Life is not about jobs and money and mortgages or disease and hospital bills—life is more! It is when we will realize how to attain peace! For me it is often just driving in my car with no sound and absolute silence when I sit and say a prayer or talk to God.

Advent season is here soon—time to see the coming of peace and learn to wait and accept it!

Let us know it will be the year-end soon, and we will be searching for peace even more!

Let’s look around for our source of peace coming through gates of heaven or picked while traveling across other continents or just seeing our families & friends!!!

AMEN!

About the Author

Hello! I’m Dr Analise Maria D’ Mello, (MBBS, MS obgyn, DNB) from the beautiful state of Goa in India. I was born and raised in a Roman Catholic family, learning my prayers, catechism and Catholic values from my parents and grandmothers. I am currently practicing as an obstetrician and gynecologist for 3 years since my residency. I often speak on anti-abortion to college students and married couples, and counsel distressed pregnant women with appropriate medical advice. I am part of the St Luke's Medical Guild of Catholic Doctors in my state providing services in prisons, and Lenten and advent retreats for medical professionals and their families.

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7 Comments

  1. Hi Dr. Analise. Upon reading your reflection, I thought you we’re writing about me! God created us with unique gifts and attributes. We can channel for good or not. I struggle with being judgemental about how I am, and realize I am high energy and this has its place. To calm my mind, I walk in nature each day ( no music or podcast or book) to pray and talk with our Lord about how best to channel this energy. God is always faithful to help, if I listen!

  2. Beautiful reflection. My body has gotten older and I’m now realizing that I can’t keep up like I used to. This getting older is not for sissies! Your kind of forced into the reality of what was is no longer. So I now I take this time to smell the roses and be more in touch with my spiritual being. Don’t worry Analise you’ll get there one day! Keep on doing what you’re doing and be grateful! 🕊️

  3. Thank you Analise,I’m grateful for your weekly reflection.Continue to find those quiet moments throughout your busy day.God will provide you with the strength and grace to manage your hectic day.God Bless you.

  4. You’re right Annalise. Everyone seems to be in a rush…for what, some don’t even know or realize there was really even no need. Or, sometimes we forget or take for granted what’s in front of or around us. Yes, we are all guilty of this at some point. May the Lord give us the grace to see Him in all that we do and focus on what His plan is for us than that of our own…and to recognize that He is in control. Peace and love to all!

  5. Perfect reflection for me this week I feel so rushed and anxious and your thoughts really helped put all my feelings into perspective.

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