Thursday, 12 February 2026

As I am home (my state of Goa) until my next work posting is allotted, I am back to my safe space—waking to chirping birds, home-cooked breakfast, meeting friends and family I haven’t seen in a while and catching up, having meals with my parents and talking about everything random, visiting the beach and watching the sun and waves, taking a walk near the hills I would climb as a child with my neighborhood kids, catching up with the updates of everyone around me — rosary at 8pm with delicious dinner with Mama and Papa cooked at home with love.

My body has gotten reset to this calm and feels lighter, my mind feels less stressed, and I am enjoying every bit of this much-needed break and the fact that I can hug my mama as many times in the day — best feeling.

My state has a reputation as an international destination for holidays, and it is sad to see a lot of non-locals trying to capitalize on it by flouting laws and ruining the ecosystem with resorts and “advancements.” It pains me to see my land change into a commercial space as I travel to major parts of the state—my village still is very sleepy and homey, and that’s the grounding I yearn for when I return home. The greed for money blinds everyone—the church priests keep reminding us at every homily to remain rooted to our motherland and save the planet.

In today’s Gospel, a Greek (non-local) lady came to ask for help and Jesus reminded her that He needs to feed the children first, and she responds with

“Lord, even the dogs under the table eat the children’s scraps.”

It makes me realize that everyone is here for a short while in their lives, and we need to just be kind and do our job. Everything else will fall in place… have faith that the Lord is watching His children and He will never let us down!!

While I plan my trip to the Shrine of Our Lady of Fatima in Lisbon, Portugal, and meet family after Copenhagen, I shall pray for all you wonderful readers who have helped me navigate through my profession and faith (sometimes skipping) and be honest about my reflections, as we are all Her children!!

We are all His children!

AMEN

About the Author

Hello! I’m Dr Analise Maria D’ Mello, (MBBS, MS obgyn, DNB) from the beautiful state of Goa in India. I was born and raised in a Roman Catholic family, learning my prayers, catechism and Catholic values from my parents and grandmothers. I am currently practicing as an obstetrician and gynecologist for 3 years since my residency. I often speak on anti-abortion to college students and married couples, and counsel distressed pregnant women with appropriate medical advice. I am part of the St Luke's Medical Guild of Catholic Doctors in my state providing services in prisons, and Lenten and advent retreats for medical professionals and their families.

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9 Comments

  1. Thank you always Miss Analise. Enjoy your homey little town and hug your family as ofen as possible. That is life well lived. Peace and safe travels my sister.

  2. What a beautiful reflection on today’s readings! I can almost see into your soul, and it is beautiful.

  3. So grateful for you ! Glad you have some downtime and wonderful family time. I feel like you’re right down the street from our home….not on the other side of the world ! God bless you !!

  4. Oh how pleased your parents must be to have you home! Enjoy your time before heading back to work.
    God’s Blessings

  5. A lovely reflection Analise,thank you.Enjoy your time at home with your beloved parents and family.You need and deserve this break.As others have said,you feel much closer than you are.Your struggles are often our struggles.God Bless you and keep you as you wait for your next assignment.🙏🏻

  6. Thank you Analise
    I’ve been following you for years. Thank you for sharing your personal journey with Mama Mary’s mentorship and reliance on Gods mercy in earning your doctors degree.
    I see your prayer life in all circumstances: joy, anger, frustration, roadblocks, thanksgiving, doubt.
    Thanks for showing us your loving family filled with support and faith in God.
    Please continue your faith journal as you continue your career.
    Many blessings to you, your family and readers.

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