Thursday 26th February 2026

“Do to others whatever you would have them do to you.
This is the law and the prophets.”

It is Lent indeed.

Everywhere I see the notifications about prayer, alms giving, and fasting!

When I refuse a drink or a meal, saying I am abstaining — it is met with weird looks or remarks like “The pope doesnt want us to fast” “No use fasting.”

I think it is a personal choice—some act I want to give my body to surrender to the Lord!

I don’t feel sad but disappointed when I have to justify my choices!

As Indians, food is our love language—we believe in feeding everyone—guests, family, strangers… Often the only and first question asked by parents in Asian and Indian communities is “Did you eat?”

Fasting is also considered a form of religious surrender in all religions—while Ramadan is concurrent with us, so are the Hinduism festivals where they fast from meats and fish on certain days of the week!

Often we think of it as a dietary modification that can have health benefits—but for me, fasting means giving up something that I am used to as usual—good warm meals—esp since I am home! It is to surrender to the Lord the minor discomforts—so I learn to surrender and trust more.

As I pack my bags for a trip across the continents, I do feel a bit of anxiety, but then I know I can surrender it to the Lord and pray for everything, and next time I reflect, I will be in Lisbon, Portugal!

Let us surrender every mistake and mishap and pray to the Lord to help us overcome the emotions we feel!

Have a fruitful Lent, everyone!

AMEN

About the Author

Hello! I’m Dr Analise Maria D’ Mello, (MBBS, MS obgyn, DNB) from the beautiful state of Goa in India. I was born and raised in a Roman Catholic family, learning my prayers, catechism and Catholic values from my parents and grandmothers. I am currently practicing as an obstetrician and gynecologist for 3 years since my residency. I often speak on anti-abortion to college students and married couples, and counsel distressed pregnant women with appropriate medical advice. I am part of the St Luke's Medical Guild of Catholic Doctors in my state providing services in prisons, and Lenten and advent retreats for medical professionals and their families.

Author Archive Page

5 Comments

  1. Thank you always Miss Analise. Peace with you during your lenten journey. Enjoy your time and your travels.

  2. Thank you Analise. Although you were talking about fasting from food(s) your words “fasting means giving up something that I am used to as usual…” resonate with me. What is it that I am used to as usual? Jealousy? Envy? Impatience? Being judgemental? Etc? All of these sorrowful traits are often exposed when I perform an examination of conscience; albeit with a contrite heart. Thank God for his tender mercy.
    Peace & safe travels.

  3. Thank you Analise.Safe travels and enjoy your trip.I look forward to reading about your experiences.

Post a Comment

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *