Thursday, 25th September 2025

My entire faith life has been about this. A power I am made to believe is so strong it can grant all my wishes if I am a good girl… eat all my veggies and don’t fight with my brother! I believed so hard, I would go to the chapel in school and pray every morning on my knees with my eyes closed for a good day and a happy day — memory to recollect all I studied for exams and to do my best!

As I grew up to be a rebellious teenager, I did visit the blessed sacrament when I wanted peace and to cry a bit in silence with no one questioning me! It was the nicest and calmest place I knew! But there was always a lady sprawled on the floor mumbling her prayers loud enough to disturb my concentration and annoy me!

After I joined residency, I prayed for patients—in difficult cases, before I scrubbed for cases and opened humans up, and when the baby didn’t cry when I delivered him/her… it was that silent prayer when I looked at the mother and wished she would see her child. I frequented a chapel built across a miraculous cross by the highway in my state — sat through mass so often, the sacristan called me to read and sing too.

Then I burnt out at my job and was at a crossroads about whether I should even continue as a doctor and took a short holiday when I stumbled across this website– I loved reading reflections by Laura, Bob, John, Mary, Carolyn… but what I waited for every Saturday was a reflection from Julie Young. I would comment on every one of her stories and reflections! They just made me think, and I soon was invited to join as an author with the POV (point of view) of being a pro-life Catholic OB-GYN in India.

In all of the chaos of my life, I would make it a point to post my reflection—some days I couldn’t due to travel or work, or sometimes I just forgot! (I am human.) But in all these comments and readers and replies, some including my family and friends from home — I would search for Him.

Who then is this about whom I hear such things?”
And he kept trying to see him.

Today’s gospel mentions Herod’s search for Jesus—it is very similar to mine! I have been hunting for the Lord everywhere—Sunday mass, blessed sacrament, rosary with my family, being with my patients, and watching them beat cancer and their worst odds! But I often forget He is within me! In that filthy heart & mind full of hate, wrath, envy, and pride—a body of lust, gluttony, and greed– there is a tiny sliver of hope—my silver lining when I say the name of Jesus and wear his cross and pray.

I know that I have the Lord in me, and so do you! Time to dive within and find him out! It’s time to stand up for our faith and shine it like late Charlie so that everyone knows, “I see Him, the one who everyone hears of!”

AMEN

About the Author

Hello! I’m Dr Analise Maria D’ Mello, (MBBS, MS obgyn, DNB) from the beautiful state of Goa in India. I was born and raised in a Roman Catholic family, learning my prayers, catechism and Catholic values from my parents and grandmothers. I am currently practicing as an obstetrician and gynecologist for 3 years since my residency. I often speak on anti-abortion to college students and married couples, and counsel distressed pregnant women with appropriate medical advice. I am part of the St Luke's Medical Guild of Catholic Doctors in my state providing services in prisons, and Lenten and advent retreats for medical professionals and their families.

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18 Comments

  1. Powerful heartfelt reflection, Analise. Your humility shines through as you open yourself totally to God. His Grace is coming your way. Blessings Frank (Brisbane, Australia)

  2. A lovely Reflection Analise. I really look forward to receiving your Reflections as they are so personally honest and always seem to resonate with me. May The Lord bless you and keep you fulfilled and happy in your special vocations. 🙏❤️

  3. Excellent, dear girl ! The Holy Spirit aways guides you while you are writing these wonderful Reflections ! Thank you soooo much for sharing your time and wisdom.

  4. Oh Analise! What a beautiful reflection! Your love for God shines through. God loves you and He loves us all.

  5. Thank you for helping us who are “trying to see Him”. The Holy Spirit is working in your heart. Love this reflection. Peace with you my sister.

  6. Thank you for giving your time and talent for writing these reflections, Dr. Analise. Seek, and you shall find. I found this site on a Good Friday when I was looking for Him at a time when I was burned out at my job. May you be filled with the Love, Joy and Peace of the Holy Spirit. 🙏

  7. Thanks for sharing your journey. Your reflections are ones with which I can connect. God’s Blessings
    (USA)

  8. This is such a beautiful and heartfelt reflection Analise.Often,you comment about your faith and prayer struggles.What I see is a hardworking woman of deep faith, allowing God into her busy life and living out her faith daily.Thank you for your commitment to writing a weekly reflection for the ACM.I always look forward to reading them.

  9. I don’t think that my previous comment went through.Thank you Analise for sharing your faith journey with us.You often comment on your struggles with practicing your faith,but I see a hardworking woman,who asks God to guide her through her waking moments in what she has been called to do.God Bless you and for your commitment to writing for ACM.

  10. Thank you, Analise, for the thought provoking reflection. “But we hold this treasure in earthen vessels…” 2 Corinthians 4:7
    Peace be with you.

  11. Thank you for your reflection. I look forward to your reflections on Thursdays and I can always relate to them. Yes, we need to stand up for our faith like Charlie did. God bless you & your family always.

  12. Beautiful reflection Dr.Analise. You are strong in faith. I’m touched by your reflection. Yes its time to dive within and find the Lord.

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