MONDAY OF THE 14TH WEEK OF ORDINARY TIME, JULY 7, 2025

We all carry our crosses. While some of these crosses are man-made others are natural, that is, part of our human nature. When one carries a natural cross, the burden seems to be light, unlike when one carries a man-made cross, like alcoholism, etc.

While every cross you carry daily, when should remember that Jesus asked us to walk with him, to invite him to help us. Jesus says, “Come to me all you who labor and are burdened, and I will give your rest” (Matthew 11: 28)

In today’s gospel passage (Matthew 9: 18-26), we read an account of an unnamed man and unnamed woman who carry heavy life burdens. The man’s daughter died, and he sought out Jesus for help. The man wanted Jesus to give his daughter back her life. “My daughter has just died, but come, lay your hand on her and she will live” What a man of faith? She has died, but come nonetheless……

The second account is about a woman who had been sick and suffered for twelve years. When this woman saw Jesus, she said to herself “If only I can touch his cloak, I shall be cured”. She did. Jesus told her that she was courageous and that her faith saved her.

A few days ago, at a dinner at the home of a parishioner, which took place prior to the 4th of July parade, I met an inactive Catholic couple. To cut the story short, the inactive couple said that they stopped practice the faith due to their daughter been a transgender, that the Church’s teaching on the issue was a breaker. We invited the couple to join us in this weekend’s church services. The way this couple responded to their cross is quite different from the others mentioned above.

What we I learn from these personalities? Some have the courage to lift their crosses up and move on, others do not have the fortitude, rather they allow the cross to overwhelm them and consume their joy and peace, hence, leading to the abandonment of faith as in the last story just told.
No matter which crosses we carry, Jesus asked us to “come” to him.
We should never try to avoid Jesus. Rather, we should run to Jesus.
In you, my God, I place my trust.

Have a wonderful week


About the Author

My name is Fr. Peter Eke, a priest of the Diocese of Gaylord, Michigan. I was called to the Catholic priesthood in July 19th, 1997. I studied Canon Law at the Pontifical Lateran University, in Rome, Italy, with JCL Degree in 2001 and JCD (doctorate) Degree in 2003. Currently, I am the pastor of Our Lady of the Lake Parish in Prudenville, Saint James in Houghton Lake, and Saint Hubert in Higgins Lake. I am also a Judge at the Marriage Tribunal in my Diocese. In my free time, I love reading, listening to music, and taking a long walk. Since my ordination my inspiring message has been “with God the oil in the flask will not dry” (1Kings 17:14).

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6 Comments

  1. Dear Father Eke, what a wonderful reflection. I see how I myself may be guarded or shy away from joining groups in church for fear of being judged or feel my failure for not being a good example to my family. I see in this gospel this is exactly the time to turn to the Lord. God bless you.

  2. Thank you, Fr Eke, for the reminder that we should lift up all our crosses to God, and not be too proud, or think they are too difficult to be solved.

  3. Thank you, Father Peter, for your inspiration and time in writing reflections every Monday. We do not take you for granted.

    I miss greatly Mary Ortwein on Sundays: uplifting and educational. I hope ACM finds a successor. Also on Tuesdays: I do hope Bob G is healthy and in a good place.

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