Sunday, 6/26/16 – All-In

Read the BibleThere are so many directions in which to go when reflecting on today’s readings.

Accepting the call – God’s call – and to follow Him.

Finding freedom – using our free will – but using that freedom to do Christ’s work.

Following Jesus – wholeheartedly – and with total abandonment to the things you leave behind, knowing that He will provide for you.

Too often though, we don’t accept God’s calling and we don’t act. Too often, we abuse our freedom to choose, and we choose the wrong things to love. And too often, we say we want to follow Jesus, but we straddle that fence, and we don’t completely hop off and leave the comfort of that fence behind. We don’t fully commit.

And surely there are many more lessons to be learned from the readings today…

So where do I go? Where do I focus? Well, I’ve got a personal story that touches on this that I’d like to share.

In a couple weeks, my wife and I will be celebrating our 16th wedding anniversary. For 11 of those years, we accumulated some significant debt through credit cards, installment loans and the like – a debt amounting almost to another home mortgage. Monthly payments equaled almost another house payment. We tried to live a life we didn’t have the capital to support.

It got to a point where it almost was hard to breathe. I mention all this to set the stage for the situation that we were in. Something had to give. But we looked at each other, and we realized that we had to do something.

So I finally agreed with my wife and together, we followed the promptings of the Holy Spirit and started Dave Ramsey’s Financial Peace University program. Dave’s program is built on Christ and centered on the financial lessons obtained from Scripture. God was calling us to this program for a while. We finally accepted and answered the call.

Together we realized that while we had a good income, we were not using that freedom wisely. We were choosing to do what we wanted, taking the easy road, buying things for ourselves and our desires, not saving, and not giving. We had nothing to save or to give.

We were doing what we wanted to with our money, rather than what we should be doing, and we became enslaved to our poor decisions and instant gratification.

And then finally, we got to the big day, the part of the program where we cut up all our credit cards. But what if there was an emergency? You don’t realize just how tied to those things you get, just how enslaved you are until you have to cut them up. This is the point where we were being asked to follow, and we had to make the choice – cut these cards up and move on with the program? Or, remained enslaved to them, always holding on, looking back, thinking we need them for a rainy day, not wanting to let go.

We cut them up, and we followed God. It was scary. What if something happened? But we did it anyway because we had nowhere else to turn. We followed the program, building discipline, and put our trust in Christ knowing that He would provide. We didn’t know how, but we trusted in Him all the way.

We didn’t look back. We were all-in.

I tell you this story, because 5 years later, this debt is completely paid off. We are debt free. I’m not mentioning this to brag, or for a pat on the back. Because the only thing we did was make a choice. We chose to cut up those cards, and follow Jesus, trusting in Him that some how, some way, he would provide. We could not do it on our own. We weren’t making any more money. I went through a career change in the middle adding more stress to the situation. We had no means to pay this debt off and we had every reason to sink deeper in trouble.

The only thing we did was make a choice to cut up those cards, and stop spending. God handled the rest. We put our complete faith into Him, and never looked back. This is the one, concrete example in my life where I can completely relate with a lesson in Scripture, and say, yep – that’s the real deal. I experienced it.

Of course I believe in it all, though much in Scripture is hard to realize or envision – but in looking at the readings today and the lessons to be learned – I can truly say that my wife and I truly experienced this. We did it through making a single choice to accept the situation and follow the calling of the Holy Spirit, and God showed us how to use our freedom wisely, and then through prayer and His special graces, He granted us freedom.

Now our challenge is to continue to use our freedom wisely and do the things we should – not what we want. It’s still a constant struggle.

This is what Christ is asking of us today though, in the three readings – to accept His call, to seek freedom through Him, no matter what is oppressing us, and to fully commit to Him and let go of those things holding us back.

I know anything is possible through Him, because He helped my family and I through an impossible situation. There are surely others. There will surely be many more in the future, but He proved to me through this experience that He truly can free us from anything afflicting us – if we simply make the choice and surrender to Him with our whole heart, and we say to Him, “I’m all-in”, and believe.

And so this is a lesson from the readings today. All of us – all of you reading – have things in life binding you down from following Christ. You hear His words, “come follow Me”, all the time. You know what’s right, and what you should be doing, but just like in my story, we too often do what we want to do, the things we think will make us happy.

Maybe it’s an addiction. Maybe its seeking happiness in material things. Maybe it’s in trying to bring others down around us, because we think it will make ourselves feel better. It may seem hopeless. It may seem impossible. Jesus is asking you to follow Him, but it’s a little scary. What if?

Trust me – just make the choice. Surrender and make the choice, and pray. Pray to Him to show you how, to show you the way out. To provide that freedom. Pray that He shows you how to use that freedom. And then let go.

Let go of those things that hold you down, that keep you from following. Cut up those cards. Delete that app. Let go of the anger. Pick up that Bible. Put Jesus first. Pray for His guidance.

Be all-in to His program, the one He wrote two millennia ago…

And then get out of the way, and let Him do His work.

The readings for Mass today.

About the Author

My name is Joe LaCombe, and I am a writer in the Indianapolis, Indiana area in the USA. My amazing wife Kristy and I have been married for 17 years and we have an awesome little man, Joseph, who is in 2nd Grade! We are members of St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Parish in Carmel, Indiana where we volunteer with numerous ministries mainly focused on marriage and family. I simply love to write, and have been writing for A Catholic Moment since 2014. Whether it’s on this website, my personal blog, or in my journal – writing is a form of prayer for me, and I love to share it with others, especially as it relates to God’s Word and everyday life. In recent years, as I’ve journeyed through life’s ups and downs, I have sought to deepen my relationship with Christ through a greater understanding of what it means to be Catholic, a strengthening of my prayer life, and fraternity with other men in my parish. And in fact, as often comes out in my writings, this is a personal mission I have right now – to be as strong a Catholic man, husband, and father as I can be in the world today and to be a living example for my son in this regard, and through the process, lead others to Christ with me. Personally, I love to run and be out in the nature that God created, though I don’t get out near as much as I should it seems. I find a deep spirituality in running, and I see distinct parallels between running and spirituality and life. I am excited and extremely blessed to be able to contribute to this website and look forward to sharing my thoughts and experiences!

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15 Comments

  1. Another great reflection to fully commit to God and trust him no matter how scared we are to let go. God Bless you Joe and Family.

  2. thank you Joe for that wonderful inspiration. very true of what we fail to do. to follow him.

  3. Thanks Joe. The reflection challenged me. I will make the defection to follow him. Benson in Zimbabwe

  4. Just directly about my life. Looking defeated in life because of debts. I really cry the lord should let me out of that by following him.

  5. Thks its reality we have become slaves of our desires I will take you path give up to jesus ngure kenya

  6. Quite an inspirational piece, it hinges directly on my life.I really need prayers In order to let go of the many distractions that are keeping me away from doing God’s Will.

  7. I can relate to this. Both my wife and I have a very large student loans with careers and degrees that don’t traditionally pay a lot of money. We have five beautiful young children, with the oldest being 12 years old. And as you can imagine, each child is a universe unto themselves- all with hopes and desires that pull resources. I am going to re-commit to turning this over to the good Lord and working his plan towards freedom. Thank you for sharing!

  8. thanks joe, so many challanging situations tends to obstract our faith to jesus; ‘ve lerned alot from your reflection. maxmillian bileni from uganda.

  9. Thank Joe for sharing from your own life. One piece that needs to be added is that Jesus does not want us to journey alone. You have your wife and the support group, Jesus sent his disciples out in pairs. We are created to live in community because when two or more are gathered…….. Blessings

  10. You are right. we need to follow Jesus wholeheartedly. What you and your wife did was courageous, but it worked. As I read your reflection, I was worried about me doing same thing. It is the same fear that makes us fall for the flesh. It is a constant battle! I pray to get to that realization one day. Kudos to you and your wife!

  11. Thank you all, and yes, God places the people in our lives we need to help us. He so often works through others. Another thing I’d like to add is that while yes, we did receive many graces, there was a lot of effort and hard work we had to put into it that continues to this day. The process was the most fulfilling part, and it helped us to build discipline. And it’s this process that has transcended itself into other areas of our lives. In many ways, this experience brought us closer to God, got us involved and active in the Church and really sparked a renewal, and embracing of our faith. And so this experience, like so many others provided fruits so much beyond our imagination and what we expected, in many aspects of our life. And so this is what we all need to believe, that from our struggles can come an amazing amount of good, more than we can comprehend, if we simply have the faith.

  12. Joe, again, Jesus spoke to me through you. What a blessing! I am excited for what’s ahead of me. Thank you!

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