Monday, June 17, 2019 An Acceptable Time for Challenge

Jean Valjean, the principal character in Victor Hugo’s Les Miserables, was imprisoned for 19 years for stealing a loaf of bread.  As the story begins, he is released—but breaks parole.  Starving, he is befriended by the Bishop.  In response, Valjean steals the Bishop’s silver.  He is caught with the goods—but the bishop gains his release by saying that he gave him the silver as a gift.

Thus begins an epic novel of the  battles between good and evil in people and in culture.  Valjean  struggles to start a new life, live a new life, from the seed of goodness planted by the Bishop within the soil of his soul compromised by poverty, injustice, and life. In a masterful plot, Hugo replicates Valjean’s struggles with the struggles of others caught in prostitution, revolution, and love.

Paul’s Guidance

Valjean’s interaction with the Bishop comes to mind today as I reflect on today’s readings.  In the first reading, St. Paul speaks to the Christians in Corinth as “ministers.”  The term minister seems to have meant at its beginnings, “one who provides something needed under the authority of another.”  It might refer today to clergy, government officials, or the person who brings communion to the carebound.

So, for the purposes of this reflection, I’m going to use “minister” in a broad sense—we are all ministers when we DO SOMETHING for someone BECAUSE it is an expression of our faith.

Paul lists many struggles we all face when we attempt to minister to others:  “afflictions, hardships, constraints, beatings, imprisonments, riots, labors, vigils, fasts.”  While I have never been imprisoned or in a riot, nor have I been beaten, as I work within my parish, I have left parish meetings or otherwise struggled with “afflictions, hardships, and constraints.”  I have labored, kept prayer vigils, and fasted as part of parish life.  As hard as it can be for me at times, I can only imagine how hard it is for priests, religious, and paid parish staff.

Today’s selection begins with “Brothers and sisters, as your fellow workers, we appeal to you not to receive the grace of God in vain.  For he says, “In an acceptable time I heard you, and on the day of salvation I helped you.  Behold, now is a very acceptable time; behold, now is the day of salvation.”

An Acceptable Time for a Challenge?

What does Paul mean by “acceptable time?”  My sources say he refers to the need for us to cooperate with grace.  God gives us the “good.”  We must receive it and cooperate with it through good dispositions and decisive effort. We receive the grace from Christ, for the purpose of joining in his mission to bring all people into God’s Kingdom.  But what do we do with it?

Especially what do we do with it when we are met with “afflictions, hardships, and constraints”—or worse? 

That’s when today’s Gospel confronts me head on.  Still speaking to his disciples as part of the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus says, “You have heard that it is said, an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.  But I say to you, offer no resistance to one who is evil.  When someone strikes you on your right cheek, turn the other one to him as well.  If anyone wants to go to law with you over your tunic, hand him your cloak as well.  Should anyone press you into service for one mile, go with him for two miles.  Give to the one who asks of you, and do not turn your back on one who wants to borrow.”

It’s a bit romantic and inspirational for me to think that in an act of “offer no resistance to one who is evil” I might change that person’s life for good—like the Bishop did in Les Miserables.  I like to believe I could muster up the virtue to do that.

But…what about behaving just as generously to the chair of the committee meeting who leaves my suggestion out of the minutes and out of the project?  Or the person who has a different idea to anything I might plan?  What about the person who radically disagrees about liturgy, finances, or the Pope’s position on X, Y, or Z?

Do I WANT TO turn the other cheek?  Honestly, no. 

Does today’s Gospel call me to turn the other cheek?  Honestly, yes.

Today Is an Acceptable Time

A talk I heard by our pastor recently reminds me that as Catholics we “have been saved, will be saved, and are being saved.”  We are being saved when we accept the grace God gives us and cooperate with it in our troublesome circumstances of parish and family.  We are being saved when we respond in a Sermon on the Mount way in difficult parish meetings and ministries.  Between our baptism and our facing God in death are years when we must cooperate with the grace God gives us.

The Catholic Catechism refers to St. Paul’s words today in paragraph 1041:  “The message of the Last Judgment calls men to conversion while God is still giving them “the acceptable time,…the day of salvation.  It inspires a holy fear of God and commits them to the justice of the Kingdom of God.” (CCC 1041)

Sandpaper

In this sense, all those who rub us the wrong way, question us, or even deliberately hurt us as we live our faith in parish and family—all those can become God’s sandpaper to smooth off our rough edges.

Today’s readings are readings I need to hear and take to heart.  My soul has some rough edges. I don’t have any silver to give away and save a soul.  But I have plenty of feelings that “go against the grain” and thus plenty of opportunities to turn the other cheek and let God work on me.

Prayer:

Lord, make me a channel of your peace—especially when I don’t want to be.  Give me the grace to respond with Sermon on the Mount practical virtue when the events of today or this week scrub against the grain in my sometimes wooden heart.  Soften me, Lord, so I appreciate the rub, the challenge.  And then give me more grace to respond as you would—not necessarily supporting or agreeing with the other, but giving respect, generous interpretation, and thoughtful dialogue.  Lead me, guide me, Lord.

About the Author

Mary Ortwein lives in Frankfort, Kentucky in the US. A convert to Catholicism in 1969, Mary had a deeper conversion in 2010. She earned a theology degree from St. Meinrad School of Theology in 2015. Now an Oblate of St. Meinrad, Mary takes as her model Anna, who met the Holy Family in the temple at the Presentation. Like Anna, Mary spends time praying, working in church settings, and enjoying the people she meets. Though formally retired, Mary continues to work part-time as a marriage and family therapist and therapy supervisor. A grandmother and widow, she divides the rest of her time between facilitating small faith-sharing groups, writing, and being with family and friends. Earlier in her life, Mary worked avidly in the pro-life movement. In recent years that has taken the form of Eucharistic ministry to Carebound and educating about end-of-life matters. Now, as Respect for Human Life returns to center stage, she seeks to find ways to communicate God's love and Lordship for all--from the moment of conception through the moment we appear before Jesus when life ends.

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9 Comments

  1. Amen. Jesus asks much, to do things that could be contrary to our own natural inclination, but he’s never said the rewards of eternal life is a walk in the park. My own heart could do with a sandpaper or two hundred.

  2. It seems Jesus puts forth a challenge. A challenge of our nature to resist taking the more difficult path. When we want to be heard, when we want to hold on to our worldly things. Lead me Lord and sand off my rough edges. I have plenty. Thank you Mary

  3. Thank you Mary,
    I’m on my way to conduct a home visit this morning as a Saint Vincent DePaul volunteer. Your words this morning were needed and appreciated.

  4. Thank you Mary for bringing to light these feelings that we all have and our need to recognize them and pray for loving hearts. Wouldn’t it be awesome if during these challenges everyone present “could tell that we are Christians by our love”? I pray that we can slow our “natural” tendencies to react in these situations long enough for our Christian hearts to engage before responding. It is often a rare event these days so everyone notices.

  5. Reading Paul’s letter to the Corinthians struck me like a thunderbolt. My first thought, Paul was a Job in his day! What human being could endure beatings, imprisonment, insults, etc., etc., etc., and not become hard, and retaliate. The readings tells us Paul and Jesus didn’t allow these humiliations harden them. They turned the other cheek. I’ve tried that, because I was told if I didn’t speak up, people would walk all over me. I did – sometimes it worked, most times, people in power found ways to insult me even further.

    Then I read your reflection Mary – only someone who has experienced some of those humiliations could write so profoundly. Your comment about your suggestion being left out of the minutes. I can relate. It’s hurtful. It’s absolutely like sandpaper rubbing against the grain. Never thought of it that way, but it sure fits. I would add to your prayer, “Lord, may the sandpaper of injustices, humiliations, insults smooth out my rough edges.

    Thank you for a very inspiring reflection

    God bless

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